(1)Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home (Pros 15:13)
(2)Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. It’s a sign of disrespect (Pros 15:1)
(3)Do not expose your husband weakness to your family & friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other’s keeper (Eph 5:12)
(4)Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties (Gen 2:24)
(5)Never compare your husband to other men, you have no idea what their life is all about. If you attack is ego, his love for you will diminish.
(6)Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them, is your husband (Pros 11:22)
(7)Never assign any one to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else! But your husband is your own responsibility (Eph 5:33)
(8)Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.
(9)Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him (Deut 3:28)
(10)Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom or an ex-lover, your home may never recover from it if you do so (SS 5:9)
(11)Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls (Pros 31:23)
(12)Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he want. Sex is very important to men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another women takes over your duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long (even the anointed ones) (SS 7:12)
(13)Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
(14)Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise women don’t do that (Eph 4:31)
(15)Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out (Prov 12:4)
(16)Your parents or family do not have the final say in your marriage. Don’t waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must leave if you want to cleave. (Luke 21:16)
(17)Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks (1Sam 25:3)
(18)If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. It’s always teamwork. (Gal 6:10)
(19)Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him, yes.
(20)Do not forget that husband want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home (Gal 6:9)
(21)Do your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food. (Pros 31:14)
(22)Don’t be too judgmental to your husband. No man want a nagging wife. (Eph 4:29)
(23)A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn’t even know that her body needs a bath. (Pros 24:27)(Prov 20:13)
(24)Don’t associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage (Pros 22:14)
(25)Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes (Luke 11v3)
(26)Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Pros 31:11)
(27)You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason. (Pros 31:28)
(28)Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable. (Heb 13:4)
(29)Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the lord, love your children and teach them very well. (Prov 22:6)
(30)Learn to thank God in good and bad or difficult times.
(31)A prayerful wife, pray always for her husband and family (1 Thess 5:7)
I pray today that God almighty will grate us wisdom to take care of our homes in Jesus Christ name Amen..